Have you ever been in a situation whereby you could easily make time for a friend of yours?
Let's just keep it realistic. You treat this friend like someone you can confide in, someone you can trust, and someone whom you thought he/she will return whatever you gave.
Yes, you could easily make time for him/her. But the question is, will he be able to make time for you, in a very short notice.
There are 3 kind of people when it comes to time.
The first kind is one who can make time for anyone in a very short notice.
He/she seems to be VERY free.
The second kind is one who is always busy when you contact them.
It seems like they vanished into thin air till they are uncontactable.
The last one is the one who respond to you and told you how busy they are and so on.
And then they somewhat came up with an excuse to reject you.
And somehow, you see him/her on the street with friends, shopping etc.
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The third kind of people is the most detestable one and by far, the worst friends i have ever had.
Let not go into detail who he/she is. (There's too many for me to list out anyway!)
But don't you feel so cheated? Perhaps that scenario seems too unjust to that person.
But how about giving him/her an advance notice? 1 week? 2 weeks? Or even 1 months?
But no matter what, even if you give a fucking 1 month notice, they will just tell you they are not sure whether if they're busy or not.
I mean, it doesn't hurt to reserve a date for someone that he/she is close to? Does it?
And then the worst part, when the date get nearer and you manage to ask him/her about it.
Guess what, that reply will make you go crazy.
"Huh. Since when you told me ah?"
"You got tell me beforehand meh?"
"I having dinner with someone already!"
Really is 'Act Blur, Live Longer'
Whatever the reply is, it's just going to make me very fumed.
Trust me, I can't take it when people are just so irresponsible, act blur, and tries to shake me off.
But hey, if you're trying to shake me off, why not do it the hard way?
Why must you take a big detour, telling me that you need to check your availability when the date get nearer and even get someone to eat dinner with (god knows whether if that's true anyway?)
If you hate or dislike to make time for me, simply tell me in the face. I really hate it when people come up with all sort of excuses to shake people off. The more excuses you try to come up with it, I get more fumed about it.
It really funny how the one person that you're willing to take bullet for, tends to be the one who pull the trigger.
To the friends who are always 'time-less':
I don't care whether if you going to make time for me or not. But trust me, you have already LOST my trust in you, managing your own time, your friends and availability. It has come to this situation that i have to pity you about the way you planned your time to be.
Coming up with all sort of excuses just to shake me off, seems to be the most despicable actions I have ever seen and it could be the most despicable actions that you ever did in your life.
Simply amazing. I couldn't agree further.
It seems to imply that you have already dislike the time i made for you way before this happen.
You know who you are.
