01 June 2014

9 Reasons that cause people to explode

These reasons are based on my experiences. There are other reasons out there that varies from person to person and my reasons may not apply to you.
Oh well, guess what. I just exploded. Those feelings, no matter how much you try to mask it, always burst when you least expected it. You have never thought that even the slightest thing will cause you to explode. But, that's what happened.


9 Types of Reasons that cause you to explode

1. Hidden Feelings
First and foremost, there must be a container of fuel to ignite a fire with a spark. Of course, this 'fuel' is the feelings we intend to hide from others.  All of us have feelings, and I can relatively estimate that we hide 8/10 of our feelings from others.
Hidden feelings can include frustrations, love life, and even adapting to some environment. These environments may not be new and it could be somewhat familiar to you, but it just doesn't click with you.
So hidden feelings are the first thing that put your mind to a somewhat insecure situation.


2. No One to talk to
Yes, hidden feelings are to be hidden. But don't you hate it, at some point in time, that you really wish to talk to someone about it and there's no one you can trust to tell about it?

Yeah, I understand that. Most of us underwent through it. But somehow, a number of us managed to find someone to speak about it. It like a burden of their chest and back. It must be a great feeling.

So what about the rest of us? We don't just only continue hiding and masking their feelings. In fact, we end up hiding one more fact.  Trying to tell ourselves that someone cares about us and will realise how fragile we are. Unfortunately, no one came to our rescue.  That hidden fact is that there are not a single soul whom we trust.


3. Frustration
After lying to ourselves that someone trustable will be here soon, and realising that there's no hope and high expectations anymore, we fall into the state of frustration.
We try to figure out what are the reasons that no one whom we can trust can offer us a hand. We tried to figure out and nothing came out from our mind. NOTHING.

Perhaps, sometimes there are stupid assumptions. Like for example, this person actually don't give a damn about me.


4. Stress
Meet our great and best friend in our life, his name is stress. This stress cause you to have pimple outbreaks etc.

But don't you hate it so much that when you're stress, even the slightest thing annoys you? For instance, a bloody tissue paper that got blown by the wind.
Yup, you know that feeling. You feel like grabbing that tissue paper and throw it down the building.  #nokillerlitterplease.


5. Repetition of the Radio
Yup, it seems that your 'radio' is on a replay mode. Perhaps you might wanna do something about it.

Don't you get so ANNOYED when people just keep harping it non stop? They repeat it again and again that you feel like a little child?

Its so annoying. Why repeat again and again. Stop talking about it when its already in the past.

It called PAST for a reason.  *change to pause*


6. People who purposely try to agitate you
Yup, this people are the most evil kind of bastard and bitches.  They tries to agitate you and when you finally exploded, its your fucking fault.

They come up with all sort of words and sarcasm to try to pull you down.
Tolerance level needed: GOD level
Percentage of population exploded: 98.0%


7. The MotherFucking Weather
Currently is around 27 Deg Cel at night. But fuck, its like god damn 34 Deg Cel in the day. I swear it feel like a sauna.

Are you trying to get down to work? Forget it, this weather is a killer. Even the slightest move you take makes you explode.


8. Cranky Mode
Imagine this, you just woke up and feeling so cranky. I swear that the worst feeling you ever have in your entire life. You wish you can sleep more, but its time you should get up and prepare for whatever that is ahead.

And then, you're so cranky that even the moving ants make you explode.
(Then the entire world will explode too)


9. All of the Above
Mix everything stated above and you'll get the damn big bang of the universe.

10 May 2014

Time-less Friends

Have you ever been in a situation whereby you could easily make time for a friend of yours? 
Let's just keep it realistic. You treat this friend like someone you can confide in, someone you can trust, and someone whom you thought he/she will return whatever you gave.

Yes, you could easily make time for him/her. But the question is, will he be able to make time for you, in a very short notice.




There are 3 kind of people when it comes to time. 

The first kind is one who can make time for anyone in a very short notice. 
He/she seems to be VERY free.

The second kind is one who is always busy when you contact them.
It seems like they vanished into thin air till they are uncontactable.

The last one is the one who respond to you and told you how busy they are and so on.
And then they somewhat came up with an excuse to reject you.
And somehow, you see him/her on the street with friends, shopping etc.

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The third kind of people is the most detestable one and by far, the worst friends i have ever had.
Let not go into detail who he/she is. (There's too many for me to list out anyway!)

But don't you feel so cheated? Perhaps that scenario seems too unjust to that person. 
But how about giving him/her an advance notice? 1 week? 2 weeks? Or even 1 months?

But no matter what, even if you give a fucking 1 month notice, they will just tell you they are not sure whether if they're busy or not.

I mean, it doesn't hurt to reserve a date for someone that he/she is close to? Does it?

And then the worst part, when the date get nearer and you manage to ask him/her about it. 
Guess what, that reply will make you go crazy. 

"Huh. Since when you told me ah?"
"You got tell me beforehand meh?"
"I having dinner with someone already!"

Really is 'Act Blur, Live Longer'

Whatever the reply is, it's just going to make me very fumed.
Trust me, I can't take it when people are just so irresponsible, act blur, and tries to shake me off.


But hey, if you're trying to shake me off, why not do it the hard way?
Why must you take a big detour, telling me that you need to check your availability when the date get nearer and even get someone to eat dinner with (god knows whether if that's true anyway?)

If you hate or dislike to make time for me, simply tell me in the face. I really hate it when people come up with all sort of excuses to shake people off. The more excuses you try to come up with it, I get more fumed about it.

It really funny how the one person that you're willing to take bullet for, tends to be the one who pull the trigger.





To the friends who are always 'time-less':
I don't care whether if you going to make time for me or not. But trust me, you have already LOST my trust in you, managing your own time, your friends and availability. It has come to this situation that i have to pity you about the way you planned your time to be.
Coming up with all sort of excuses just to shake me off, seems to be the most despicable actions I have ever seen and it could be the most despicable actions that you ever did in your life.
Simply amazing. I couldn't agree further.


You could easily make time for your friends, but you couldn't make time for someone who trusted you, confided in you and who always make time for you?
It seems to imply that you have already dislike the time i made for you way before this happen.

You know who you are.