Time-less Friends

Have you ever been in a situation whereby you could easily make time for a friend of yours? 

Let's just keep it realistic. You treat this friend like someone you can confide in, someone you can trust, and someone whom you thought he/she will return whatever you gave.

Yes, you could easily make time for him/her. But the question is, will he be able to make time for you, in a very short notice.

There are 3 kind of people when it comes to time. 

The first kind is one who can make time for anyone in a very short notice. 

He/she seems to be VERY free.

The second kind is one who is always busy when you contact them.

It seems like they vanished into thin air till they are uncontactable.

The last one is the one who respond to you and told you how busy they are and so on.

And then they somewhat came up with an excuse to reject you.

And somehow, you see him/her on the street with friends, shopping etc.

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The third kind of people is the most detestable one and by far, the worst friends i have ever had.

Let not go into detail who he/she is. (There's too many for me to list out anyway!)

But don't you feel so cheated? Perhaps that scenario seems too unjust to that person. 

But how about giving him/her an advance notice? 1 week? 2 weeks? Or even 1 months?

But no matter what, even if you give a fucking 1 month notice, they will just tell you they are not sure whether if they're busy or not.

I mean, it doesn't hurt to reserve a date for someone that he/she is close to? Does it?

And then the worst part, when the date get nearer and you manage to ask him/her about it. 

Guess what, that reply will make you go crazy. 

"Huh. Since when you told me ah?"

"You got tell me beforehand meh?"

"I having dinner with someone already!"

Really is 'Act Blur, Live Longer'

Whatever the reply is, it's just going to make me very fumed.

Trust me, I can't take it when people are just so irresponsible, act blur, and tries to shake me off.

But hey, if you're trying to shake me off, why not do it the hard way?

Why must you take a big detour, telling me that you need to check your availability when the date get nearer and even get someone to eat dinner with (god knows whether if that's true anyway?)

If you hate or dislike to make time for me, simply tell me in the face. I really hate it when people come up with all sort of excuses to shake people off. The more excuses you try to come up with it, I get more fumed about it.

It really funny how the one person that you're willing to take bullet for, tends to be the one who pull the trigger.

To the friends who are always 'time-less':

I don't care whether if you going to make time for me or not. But trust me, you have already LOST my trust in you, managing your own time, your friends and availability. It has come to this situation that i have to pity you about the way you planned your time to be.

Coming up with all sort of excuses just to shake me off, seems to be the most despicable actions I have ever seen and it could be the most despicable actions that you ever did in your life.

Simply amazing. I couldn't agree further.

You could easily make time for your friends, but you couldn't make time for someone who trusted you, confided in you and who always make time for you?

It seems to imply that you have already dislike the time i made for you way before this happen.

You know who you are. 

Flirters

Before I begin on this post (very offensive), I would like to clarify the meaning of the word 'flirt'. It has become a norm that everyone think people who talks to the opposite gender is consider a flirt. 

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¹flirt

verb \ˈflərt\

: to behave in a way that shows a sexual attraction for someone but is not meant to be taken seriously

: to think about something or become involved in something in a way that is usually not very serious

: to come close to reaching or experiencing something

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I often get judged by people and sometimes, or even most of the time, got people who referred me as a flirt. Probably there are always picture of me and girls on my instagram. I can tell you, they're just friends of mine, who happened to be girls, that made an impact in my social circle. 

So does that mean that any guy with an instagram profile that is filled with girls and the user picture is a flirt? There's 50% chance he is. It's either yes or no. 

For those of you who know me well enough, I strike conversation with girls is to understand them more and expand my social circle. I don't do it just to do any pick up or whatsoever. But as for those who want to judge me based on my instagram, you don't know me well enough. Perhaps you need to speak to me more often. :)

If you have read the definition above clearly, the definition highlighted something that is pretty obvious, which is not serious while expressing verbally or even in terms of behaviour.

So let me ask you, which kind of guy is the worst shit ever?
1. A guy who is single and flirts
2. A guy who is attached and flirts

Of course, you will choose the 2nd guy. Those are the kind of guys that hurt the girls big time. Seriously, who died and made this kind of guy KING?!

Often, when I see people flirts when they are attached, it just make me feel so disgusted. 

You have a girlfriend, and you are so fucking desperate for fuck?

Why the heck did you even get into a relationship then?

Not trying to contradict myself yet, but it appears that being single seems to be the best situation to flirt all you want before getting into a relationship. BUT NO, that's not the main point.

Tell me, who the fuck upload an intimate photo of him and a girl on the instagram?!

And not to mention, the girl is not even his girlfriend.

Hey, I do understand that you're attached, but please, fucking respect your girlfriend.

Perhaps you're born like this to flirt, but don't fucking hurt your girl because of flirting.

It just make you a bastard, and a flirt.

You get a fucking bad reputation, and maybe even worse off like a playboy.

You may be good looking, you may have girls behind chasing after you. 

But grow up. You will never be able to sustain long in a relationship.

How do i know that? Because all your previous relationship appears to be in the same situation as i describe. You flirt here and goes back to her like an obedient puppy.

Seriously, i don't even respect a single shit about you.

If its not her whom I care about, you're already worse than a shit without anyone hinting to you.

So grow up and stop flirting before you become the World's Greatest Flirt. 

Untitled.

Since it's Labour Day (yes, a public holiday much love for it) tomorrow, I'm still thinking about how to spend my time. Weeks ago, I planned for a photoshoot for tomorrow, but apparently, studies was fucking messed up that my friend couldn't join me.  Nah, I'm not going to blame her or any sort. (Yes it's a girl!!) There's plenty more chances for us to go for a photoshoot but not any time soon.

Rest assure, I don't plan something without a backup plan.

Yes, some of you may have already expect this, but for those who doesn't, I'm meeting Ben tomorrow for a photoshoot recce.

The theme of the photoshoot is probably music themed and we will be getting a group of people to act as a band. So these photos that are taken will be sort of like the music album artwork and their solo biography.

Example: 

(Via http://dalestarosa.blogspot.sg)

So i thought that why make it more interesting and have a little good filter over it. I decided to make the photoshoot a <VINTAGE MUSIC THEMED PHOTOSHOOT>
I went over to google and tried to get some inspiration of what and how i wanted it to be like.

(Via http://hanifahaddar.tumblr.com)

(Via http://www.bedazzlesafterdark.com/2012/03/fashion-editorial-olivia-palermo-model.html)

(Via http://speckyboy.com/2013/01/28/50-fantastic-photo-effect-tutorials-with-photoshop/)

One of the picture that caught my attention was this. Not because of the kiss, but because of the great toned and filtered photograph and its background. 

(Via http://www.picturesbymom.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/cblurweddingstudio.com__MG_9960-600x399.jpg)

I thought for a while. And maybe I should look at my countless of files to get some more inspirations.

Now, i got some great inspiration and ideas on the back of my mind. I can't wait for the photoshoot recce tomorrow and its going to be as wonderful as it is. 

Till then! :)